SET SEXUAL BOUNDARIES FOR YOUR OWN GOOD

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Sexual immorality is on the increase all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and men of God are also joining the club. Married women are not left out, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day.

The rate at which immorality is increasing is alarming! It is spreading fast into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated into the club. It's no news that 4, 5 years old kids now have sex with each other. Staying sexually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task.

One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit sex is over confidence. The wrong belief that you can be free around the opposite sex and nothing would happen is a big lie meant to deceive people.

A lot will happen! One of the ways you can stay sexually pure whether married or single these end time is to set strict boundaries. If you are too careless around the opposite sex, you will fall flat on your face! That is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better. You can't be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure, set boundaries!

There are some people who can't be your friends,it's okay to  raise the standard. Any body can call you names, that's their headache, you have your destiny to protect. As a rule, I don't make friends with liars, gossips and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit sex, we can't be friends, period!

Monitor your chats. Don't allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refuse to stop, block them!

Limit the hugs and touches,especially with the opposite sex. If your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it.

Don't allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members and close same sex friends maybe), it doesn't make any sense. Pet names turn the opposite sex on, if you don't know that, know it right now.

Be sensitive to attractions. Don't be naive around the opposte sex, know when a man/ woman is sexually attracted to you and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are sexually attracted to you, move back.

Know when you are sexually attracted to someone and move back. It's perfectly normal to have chemistry for someone. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful, virtous woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/ woman get you excited and move back.

Don't jump at new relationships. Give it time. Study the person, know what they stand for, see if your core values are compatible, if not, move back!

Leadership attracts all kinds of people. If you are a leader or you are gifted, talented or intelligent, the opposite sex will show more interest in you, be careful whom you allow to get close to you.

Accept gifts with care. Men don't joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for sex. Stop begging men for money. Work with your two hands and raise your standard. Men will respect and honour you for it.

Work on your marriage. Fix the problem as soon as possible or else you get attracted to someone who gives you what you lack in your marriage, adultery is the result.

Be prayerful, be watchful. Jesus says "watch and pray that ye may not fall into temptation..."

Don't stay with the opposite sex in a dark or lonely room.

Don't counsel the opposite sex on a bed in a lonely room.

Avoid provocative dresses and pictures. Let your spouse or parents advise you on what is okay for you.

Mind the pictures you post on the social media, if it is getting unecessary opposite sex attention, delete it.

Don't visit the opposite sex alone, especially at night. It doesn't make sense.

These and more are the things you need to do to stay sexually pure in this 21st century.

People may laugh at you, it doesn't matter. They may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, don't let it bother you. Your destiny is too precious to waste on the altar of sin. Avoid friends who make fun of holiness and make friends with people who appreciate purity and holiness.

Finally, avoid the second look, as far possible. I agree perfectly with Job on his resolution never to look lustfully at any lady. Yes, you can avoid the second look. Set your boundaries and never allow anyone to compromise your holiness.

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EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN...

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EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN...

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)

. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)

24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

Where are the husbands who are daddies!

MY 100 DAYS COVENANT WITH NIGERIANS- BUHARI ***A MUST READ***

MY 100 DAYS COVENANT WITH NIGERIANS- BUHARI ***A MUST READ***who and where were this 100 days generated and  why are their denials for it now.We need to move forward as a nation,no more backwardness but forward ever

I weep for Naija

Water run away me eyes seriously when I see sycophants at work

 Water run away me eyes seriously when I see elders behaving like babies.

 Water run away me eyes seriously when decorum is thrown to nothing. 

Water run away me eyes seriously when I see the devil welcoming more converts. 

 For those who have eyes but refused to see and those who have ears but refused to hear,may the Almighty Lord remove it from them now and give it to those who need it urgently.May the sights of the blinds be restored and the deaf to hear.

  

The good book Bible says if my people who are created by His hand refused to serve Him, He will raise the mountains and the stone to life to serve the good Lord. 

I weep for Naija when I see elders lying to sustain livelihood despite all their sermons

How do we move forward if not to look at the past,attest to present and then await a tomorrow.I don't want to be dragged backward rather I want to move forward ensuring that I carry everybody along in respective of any affiliation be it ethnic,political or social attachment.This settings is everywhere on the universe but everybody forgo it in order to progress as a nation and people.Nigerians are tired of things not working,being lopsided and expecting the masses to suffer it.The introduction of the social medias gave an average Nigerian the opportunity to vex it's annoyance on the government which became visible during GEJ era and which was never there in the past eras.GEJ does not have the wherewithal as an individual and unfortunately he has kept nonentities as advisers who are forever after their selfish tendencies.This great nation need a change and a change we want NOW!


Goodluck Ebele Azikiwe Jonathan,please don't tell me you are going to leave behind the following calamities for this great nation:
Fuel scarcity
Power(Light) scarcity
Internal and external debt scarcity
Workers salaries scarcity
Boko Haram scarcity
PDP scatter scatter scarcity
Sacking and reappointing scarcity
Selling of several government agencies scarcity

If scarcities are your ways of handing over to a progressive government that want to put changes into the lives of the ordinary masses then know in your heart of heart that you have murdered sleep.

And whoever murdered sleep will cease to sleep no more.

This generation and the generations unborn will have it in history that you were clueless,insensitive,heartless,wicked and selfish but note it that MAY 29TH,2015 will be the day that Nigeria will ceased to be a 3rd world nation by the special grace of God.

True Christanity

Who is that Christian who can shout alleluia with the  whole heart that he or she is serving the true Lord.

Who is that pastor who is serving CHRIST in true faith and allow CHRIST like to show in his actions and reactions.

Who is that church member who pays his church dues while his children attends the church school with debts on his head.

Because Christianity of old were good,it gave schools,gave hospitals,gave hymn books,gave so much that it never require anything from you but IJOBA ORUN.

I will forever serve a living God who is just one and remain one till eternity,the good old Christanity took care of humanity regardless of religion and race,gave every living souls joy and a future that you will be happy you were opportuned to get.

Notable politicians in NIgeria would have in a way or the other being opportuned to pass through Christian hospitals and school be it by birth or passing through missionary schools while they were advancing in life.

The same society that welcomed this opportunities is the society now that is making it difficult for this generation and the generation unborn to get this opportunities now while using religion to divide us as a nation.

Who is that pastor that attended a missionary schools in the 60's,70's,80's,90's and who was made to pay school fees,asked to go home for not paying school fees,the answer is clear and straightforward  because these schools are missionary schools belonging to the churches so nothing is paid.

BOB

BOB,I need you at the background.

Education has not transformed me because my teacher never thought me so ,it has only polished me as an individual but I don't know of you.

I woke up to a new person who can see,can be seen but you saw me.

Buhari should be at the background because I need his experience

Babangida you might consider as IBB(international born bastard) but I still wish to see him because I believe he has a lot for Nigeria only when he is at the background.

Obasanjo will never cease to be relevant but tell him I want to see him at the background.

They are the over 70years old,so they should be at the background,we need their knowledge and experience even if they faulted when they were there,I still need them.

I will campaign against your being in the fore front but I need your at the background

I will forever hail your persons as a fellow human beings because I kept asking the ALmighty why HE  had kept you guys for this long for this great nation.

You guys(Babas) saw this nation when the colonial master were there as children and the legacies they left behind,decided to rubbish it and now leave shits for me to pack.

For the love of this great nation,I will pack those shits but I don't want you at the fore front,I will see you at background because I need you BOB.